Saturday, December 31, 2011

Bye 2011.. Hello 2012..

I would like to take this time to greet and send my deepest thanks to all my special and dearest friends, who inspired and never get tired in showing their support since I started blogging!

 My life in blog sphere was so memorable
and special because of my friends who 
are always there for me..
I've learned from all of you here guys,
and all are free of cost..:)
From the beginning until this last day of 2011
I'm still learning from all of you
It's a blessings that I found
and I met a lot of blogger from here.
This is one of many special gift
that I got and will always remember
for the year 2011
I may say bye for this year 
but not to my friends from here..

Please don't change... or else.. 

Just kidding!! :)

I love all my friends!!
Happy New Year to all of you!!

Monday, December 26, 2011

For This Coming Year

Few days from now, we're moving to another year of journey. The events of the past could be described as bleak and dismal. Many news headline bear words that are very far from encouraging like, tragedy,  meltdown, tougher times, recession  and poverty that continues to stare back with expressionless eyes at humanity in tears.

However, we must not be perturbed, if we truly believe that God is always around us. We can be sure that blessings from HIM will never get run dry. With our prayer and perseverance or diligent at work will definitely make us move forward for a better life. We all commit mistakes, or fall behind sometimes in our life, but the chances of changing our way to a right path is always there waiting for us. Let's not lose even a bit of hope, that we can overcome all and  live a peaceful life with our family or loved ones, for this new beginning.

"Be always at war with your vices, 
at peace with your neighbors,
and let each New Year find you a better man"
  by: Benjamin Franklin


Friday, December 23, 2011

Forgiveness For This Season

In my previous post, we talked about pampering or giving a treat for ourselves this holiday season. We also talked about our wishes and shared our greetings, we even discussed about how to save money when this seasons come.

Few days ago, misunderstanding between me and my elder sister made us treat each other so cold. We don't talk anymore, we don't look at each other even if we work together.  We don't share food while eating lunch in one place, unlike before. It hurts me a lot, and I know that she felt that way too. But our ego was so high that time and no one wants to ask for forgiveness. I love my sister so much, not because she is my sister, we're best of friends too. After that misunderstanding I don't feel good and  not comfortable being with her, but how long we're going to treat each other like this? If  you're going to ask about what, how or who's  fault it is, all I knew is she was wrong, but because she is older than me, she can't even say sorry for what happened? Is that right? Anyway, because I love her and I can't take this problem for long.  I did the first move, I sent her message  before I start doing this post, my message goes like this, "how are you? why you did not work yesterday? I'm sorry for what happened two days ago, I don't want us to be like this, and I can't stay another day not talking to you, I'm so sorry"..  and she sent back "I'm sorry too, you know that I can't stay that way too, that's why I did not work yesterday" .. my tears begun to fall but my heart feels great after we exchanged forgiveness through phone. Nothing is greater than sharing our love and forgiveness. To err is  human but to forgive is to divine, I truly believe with this. Forgiveness is one precious gift that we can't  exchange for money.

Now, I can say I'm ready to celebrate yuletide season!.. My heart was free from anger because of forgiveness, a precious gift from God that I have in my heart now. Let's all celebrate this season with open heart and positive outlook for tomorrow! :) So, are you ready to celebrate the Yuletide Season?

Happy Holidays !!

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Sunday, December 18, 2011

Emotionally Mature

"Emotional maturity implies controlling of emotion rather than letting emotion get the better of you."

What are the things to consider when they say, emotionally mature?  Did you know that a person can be chronologically mature, but emotionally immature?  You may be well into your 30s but still be childish in so many ways, like you take everything personally. You feel bad when you don't get attention, or cry when things don't go your way. Are you people like this? I admit sometimes before in my life, I used to act like this, but I found out that this is not good, especially when you have to deal with different people. How will you  understand and improve your relationship with other people if you're emotionally immature? We must  understand our self first, before other people can understand us.  Acting as if  we can't do anything on  tough situation or and easily giving -up, can be sign of emotionally immature. We  need to face the reality  in a given situation.

Mostly people now make their decisions comes from conclusions or react in given situations based  on how things feel to them. Emotionally mature people can experience true empathy. And the empathy is a prime requirement for successful relationships that can make one's emotionally mature. In your own words, how will you define emotionally mature?

"Being emotionally mature doesn't mean getting old, but it's growing-up." 

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Friday, December 16, 2011

My Greetings Tree

 the bottom
     of my heart wishing 
    you all Happy Holiday!
    This season is for all of us
       let's all celebrate and enjoy the
       true spirit of this season with our loved ones.  
       We all knew that this seasons 
     is not just giving material things, 
     but it's sharing of love and respect for
    everybody. This is the best gift that we can
keep. May this season bring us new hope, more 
faith and strength towards life journey. May we learn  to forget
and forgive from the past. More happiness
     for this new beginning. Always remember that the most
important part of this season is remembering GodAnd
  thank Him for giving us another year of  life and His never-ending
love and care. A prayer together with  our family that comes from our heart is 
one way to show  how thankful we  are for all  the
that God
 given us.

May this seasons bring us joy and prosperous one!

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Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Friendly Christmas Wishes

Our friends are part of our everyday life they can be part of our family too. Buying them special gift is different from sending them our best friendly wishes. This season is the perfect time to look back over the year and give thanks for all that we have received. However, if we concentrate only on the material things of life, we may feel discouraged about not having enough money to buy all the things we wanted, and forget to show our appreciation to others especially to our family and friends. I would like to share with you my special word/message and a wish for my friend.

You are so special and so close to me,
I can't remember how many times you
   comfort me when I feel down, how many
 times you lend me your ear and gave
me your shoulder when I feel like
  crying. You always encouraged
and helped me to hold tight
when difficulties and
  trials of life  
trying to
get me. 
 Holiday season was
coming  so near and you 
know that it won't be complete

without sending you all my best wishes my friend.
Thank you so much! I am wishing you all the best in life,
more blessings,good health and more happiness my dearest friend.

What about you, aside from giving your friend a special gift, what is your best word for your friend this  coming Christmas Holiday?

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Saturday, December 10, 2011


Let's talk about unforgettable memories this time. Every one  has this thing for sure, whether good or bad memories that happened just this year. Few days from now we are entering another year of journey in this world, and some of us are making their New Years Resolution list or wish by now, are you one of them? Okay, what matters most is we are thinking  for some changes in our life, for better and more achieving  this time, that's why it's called resolution.

My life has a lot of unforgettable, good and bad memories this year, I want to share with you two of my most unforgettable experiences that I can't forget but looking forward to improve it and the other is to leave and try to forget it.

Good thing I want to last
Someone gave me reason to continue dreaming for tomorrow, never lose hope and show me the truth behind the word Love. I want this thing to last, and promised to take good care of it and never let this go.

Bad thing I want to forget
Someone that ruin my life and made it complicated. Someone that is hiding from a mask of God fearing person but the truth is sent by evil spirit to take advantage to other people. I wish and pray that this thing left in my mind would erased forever.

Unforgettable memories or things are just part of our life,  we can improve or  resolve them if needed.  Life is not like a bed of roses, there are always ups and downs, good and bad, but what important is we are always learning and growing through experiences in life, May this coming New Year bring us more good memories in life. What about you, do you have some unforgettable too?

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Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Treat Yourself Too !

As we all knew, Spirit of Christmas is sharing and showing of love and care to our loved ones.  Aside from being cheerful or more cheerful this coming year, I would love to give myself another gift or treat. Yes, we deserve a treat for ourselves too! I know more of us now are thinking and preparing something that can give happiness to our family or friends. Did it comes to your mind that we, ourselves need and deserve it too? Right, a treat that comes from our own. Like me, I always forgot to treat myself. Now I want to change it, I want myself to feel and see how lucky I am for being me..

All I want for myself ;

  • My life before was not easy like I used to tell everybody, and I almost forgot to smile, that's why my first gift for myself is CHEERFULNESS. :)  I want to stay longer with my family, so I need to be always gloomy to stay beautiful and fit, lols.. Actually, being cheerful is healthy that's why I choose it first..:)

  • A year of too much work and stress, maybe it would be relaxing if I'll try to visit salon and spa once again. From head to foot..:) What do you think? Would you like to join me?

  • What about shopping? Do you love shopping? Actually I am not that addict when it comes to shopping, it's bag and shoes are addicted to me! lols.. I love collecting bags and shoes! :)

    • Last year I gave myself  trip to Malaysia, yes all alone! A time for myself, peace of mind and enjoyment too. Sometimes we really need to go other places just to relax our mind. This is the most expensive treat I gave for myself , and I want to try it again if not this year hopefully soon by next year if God's will. I need to work harder again to have this treat! :)

        Everybody needs a special treatment, including ourselves. If we really want to feel the spirit of this coming holidays, treat yourself too. It doesn't matter how you gonna do it, as long as it can makes you happy, that's the best gift we can give to ourselves, happiness..

        How do you pamper yourself when this holidays was coming? Do you treat yourself too?

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        Saturday, December 3, 2011

        Be Cheerful.. It's Free ! :)


                    "Being cheerful keeps you healthy. It is slow death to be gloomy all the time."
                                                  (Proverbs 17:22, Today's English Version)

        Another year was coming near, give our self a treat everyday, cheerfulness..!:) We must be cheerful because this keeps us healthy. To be cheerful, we should possess a happy outlook in life. If we are gloomy all the time, we slowly killing ourselves. A cheerful heart is a good medicine, but that's not all that a cheerful or glad face heart brings. It also makes a happy face.:)

        If our heart is cheerful or glad, it will show in our face. Happiness inside is manifested in our outward appearance, and this is good for our health. To be genuinely happy, we should know how to deal with stress,anxiety, and worry, which are a part of life here on earth. We should be healthy not only physically, but mentally and spiritually  as well. We need to learn how to manage and solve life's problems because if not, these will not only makes us sad but will also take a toll on our health and our spiritual well-being. Such sad situation then will run counter to how we ought to live our lives. We should know with God's help and guidance, and a positive outlook in life, we can be full of joy as we continue stand firm in our faith.:)

        Be cheerful, it's free.. no toll and less wrinkles too! :)

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        Friday, December 2, 2011

        My Heart..

        Today all I wanted to do is to send my 
        deepest THANKS
        to all who wishes
        and send their greetings..

        You made my heart feel so special

        God Bless Us All..

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        Thursday, December 1, 2011

        A New Beginning..

        It's a new beginning, as I remember my life never comes easy, difficulties and hardship always around me. I'm thankful because am standing still and never give up. I have my friends who are always there through rain or shine and  my family most especially my kids whom I love so much, they are giving me reason and inspiration to continue dreaming for tomorrow.
          I want my past to make me better and not a bitter
          more faith, hope and strength for new beginning..

        Thank you my Lord
        for all the blessings and another year of my life..

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        Sunday, November 27, 2011

        December What Makes You Special ?

        In my previous post about December, we shared different tips for our moms to avoid worrying and help them to find other way to lessen their worries in preparing for this coming of holiday season.  I am so thankful to all those who shared their secrets to help other moms too.

        What makes December special for you?  Aside from celebrating Christmas, do you have other reason why do you find or other people find it special?  It's true, that the first thing we always remember is the coming of what we call Christmas day, time for family gathering, exchanging gifts, vacations and bonding moments with our friends.  The changes in weather or climate in other places can be considered too.  Just like here in our country, when this month of December, cold weather was experienced here that makes other feel it so special.

        Every one has their own reason why they find December so special and other people find it ordinary  month or to other it is the month they do not like because of the winter, right?  In my own, I find it so special because I was born under this month, not only like that, I was born on the first day of it, isn't it so special?  Yeah, it's indeed a blessings for me!:)  I love the feeling when this month was comingAside from World AIDS Day,  it's my birthday!! Even though, I really don't celebrate it, because I'm old to have party, lols.. I want to start my new life from the date I was born and not only when new years come or changing  number of the year alone like other people used to do.  For me, this is the perfect date to start new  life with positive attitude towards life or to improve myself  more. My new years resolution starts here, the day I was born.  That is why  December so special for me.:)

        What about you?  Do you have other reason why  December is special?  Or maybe not too special for you?

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        Thursday, November 24, 2011

        Unpublished Post

        Dear friends,

        It's been  five months since I started sharing my thoughts. I've met a lot of friends who are always here to listen in every words I shared. Friends who are ready to give support and those who encouraged me to continue even if I knew for myself  that I don't have enough knowledge in writing. Because of you, I've learned a lot of things, but most of all in facing reality of  life.

        Saying goodbye is not forever, farewell doesn't mean I will not coming back. Sometimes we need to focus on other things that matters most and more time is needed. Saying goodbye saddens me now, but like what I've said it's not the end of everything, I will be leaving but my heart  will remain, yes.. to you my friend to all of you. I am stranger here before, through sharing we became friends. I cherished every moments I've spent here, I may not be around all the time but I will always support you and stay connected, no matter what.. 

        My sincerely thanks to all of you, who believes in me and never leave me through ups and downs. To all my friends and those who keep coming back just to read my post and never get tired to share comments,  thank you so much guys. I will not mention names because you are all number one for me. God bless us all..


        Yeheey!! my farewell letter was not published because I just can't leave you guys,, that's why

         I must say this words now,
         YOU did not hold my hand, but
         YOU made me change my mind.
        YOU didn't allow me to publish my post.
        Maybe there's a reason
        why YOU told me not to
         But whatever is that reason,
        I'm so thankful to YOU, because
        I'm still here sharing and
        inspiring others too

        Let's do the sharing again!:)

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        Monday, November 21, 2011

        December Here You Come !

        What comes to your mind when December was coming? This month is so special right? A lot of people are preparing for this season, some are doing their list by now, who and what gift is best to give for their loved ones. Some are thinking about what to prepare for that occasion, because after celebrating Christmas here comes the New Year, another occasion that we all celebrates.

        But we can't hide it that there were some who are worrying too much about this month, because in this month  "expenses are expected". Do you get what I mean? Do you believe that, even the practical mom got worried when this month of December comes? Even if bonuses or what we called 13th month pay was expected, still our moms get worried about how to budget all, especially if we are  living in a middle class or in a family that has low income. Like me, I have my own family and relatives who are coming when this occasion comes. I see to it that I have something for them even if  it's a simple gift. I set aside small amount everyday, I put it inside of a box, for this occasion. Sometimes, when I saw sales in the market, I tried to look for something that fits my budget, buying early gift can save us more too, then I'll just keep it first then pack it when occasion was coming. We can't avoid to gift-giving when Christmas and New Year was coming, right? And I believe in saying, "It's better to give than to receive" and the "true spirit of this season is to give love not only with that day but it should be everyday" it's all up to us how we are going to show love, right?

        Now, I need your help and advise my dear friends here at bloggers, maybe we can share some tips for our moms who are in this case, like me..:) What can you suggest to our dearest moms about this coming of December? How they can overcome the worries in budgeting?

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        Tuesday, November 15, 2011

        Relationship - How Long Or How Short ?

        How long is your relationship now? I learned it's not  how long or how short is your relationship made  you and your partner stay together. There are some couple who got married after long engagement but separated too after few years or months of living together as husband and wife. There were also some who decided to bind themselves after few meetings and still living together and getting stronger times go by.

        I heard my niece and a friend of her discussing about this topic yesterday night. Her friend is favor on long engagement before getting into marriage and my niece believes that it's not on how long but how the lovers take themselves. It's how they love each other and how they handle the relationship to make it more stronger. At their young age, both were 14 years old, they were into serious topic like this, and I am not surprised because of what we call new generation or advance technology now a days are really wide. While, listening in a bit far a distance with them, I remember my mom  was very strict with this matter when I was on that age,  they say it's not yet the right time to talk about this topic because it can only give us wrong information, but not this time, because we are into the world of advancement.  After few minutes of listening with them and finished their discussion, even if they have different views about having relationship, at the end both shows they are open minded about the issue.

        For me, based on my experiences it's not how long or how short, but it's how both love each other, the commitment, respect and trust can make relationship more stronger. Added the most important thing, the guidance from up above. What about you? What is your opinion with this matter?

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        Sunday, November 13, 2011

        PROBLEM find solution

        There is really  no way we can elude problems. At every turn and bend,we are bound to meet one. Truly so for our earthly journey is never a smooth one. Ours is not a worry-free world. And we cannot afford to stop on track seeing a problem looming in the distance.We have to move forward and risk an encounter as there could be no other way out. Making detour or backtracking, as the case may be is not a guarantee that we won't be meeting the same problem, or another one for the matter,elsewhere. We may even find ourselves in a tighter situation.

        When a problem comes along, no matter how trivial it may be, there is no recourse but to work out a solution. Yes, for there is no way that the problem is getting away from us unless it has been dealt with accordingly. The best thing to do when having problem is to meet it head-on. And problems when not solved, have a way of recurring, or haunting people as others would put it, with even more devastating effects. So the earlier we are done with one, the better. Successfully getting through dilemma, we can have a sight of relief. And with a shrug of the shoulders we could then whistle "whew" that was close"

        We must admit it too that wealth and knowledge are no guarantee to a problem-free life. But, it can lessen our problem if we knew how to dealt using both wisely.  Nothing is best with TRUST in God, and the power of working hard to solve the problem.

                           "If there's a problem there's a solution"

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        Saturday, November 12, 2011

        Out Of Curiosity - My Favorite Popcorn

        Do you love watching movies? Alone or with your loved one or whoever is with you at  theater room or just movie at home, why is this popcorn always present? When I was a kid, I love eating buttered or cheesed popcorn inside theater while movie or at home a kettle pop what we call a dancing pop.Why do movies  usually match with a popcorn? I remember when I asked my mom about this, I said, mom, why is popcorn always match with a movie? She answered me, ' honey popcorn is the cheapest food that you can buy and eat inside the theater that's why," then she laughed..:)) Is my mom's right? Lols.. I've never seen any cinema without popcorn booth outside. Is there any study about this? But, this is true right? When they say let's watch movie, the first thing or food comes in our mind is a popcorn and soda! But not with my youngest son now, for him it's a pizza with soda :)

        Can you tell me why is popcorn or kettle pop is mostly match with movie? Am just curious ever since, because I really love eating popcorn..:))

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        Thursday, November 10, 2011

        All About Worries

        "Who of you by worrying can add single hour to his life?"
        (Matt.6:27, New International Version)

        Likened to a rocking chair, worry often times keeps people moving but never getting anywhere. Because many tend to worry even about things that are not really significant, worry is also said to be the advance interest paid on troubles that seldom come." We all knew that worrying is not beneficial.

        Unfortunately, worry grips and overpowers many of us. We people worry almost everything that put us under stress most of the time. The more we worry the greater the stress builds up inside us. and this can leave to emotional and physical breakdown. Worry and stress really can't add even a few minutes of our life but worse, it even negatively effects our health, diminishes our strength and shortens our life span.

        We really can't avoid to feel worried most of the time, but we have to be brave, hold on to our faith and don't lose hope. Challenges and worries are part of everyday life that we need to overcome. Prayer will give us  peace of mind and make us calm. Start your day with a smile and the world will smile back at you :)

        Let Him have all our worries and shape our life, this can help us to live longer.

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        Tuesday, November 8, 2011


        What word is best to express my sincerely thanks,
        To the one who is so dear and so kind to me
        A friend and a mentor that I am following
        Always an inspiration in my everyday writing.

          Part And Parcel Of Life ......

        I am  inviting you all  to visit and see how inspiring and wonderful her blog is and start sharing things here that you loved most with her blog.

        Thank you so much :)


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        Sunday, November 6, 2011

        FACTS about JEALOUSY

        "Peace of mind makes body healthy, but jealousy is like a cancer." 
        (Prov. 14:30, Today's English Version)

        Do you feel jealous most of the time? How can we control ourselves being jealous? In any relationship we can't avoid  getting jealous sometimes, but we need to overcome this feeling because this will not help any relationship, it can kill or fade love, trust and loyalty too. Love is not a jealous but love conquers all. It is not conceited or proud. It is patient and kind. Love is not ill-mannered or selfish and it doesn't keep a record of wrongs.

        Jealousy comes easily if we do not trust ourselves, the feeling of being threatened by a rival in a romantic relationship or losing something of value to another person which happens it's yours already. Or  feeling of envy,  hatred or bitterness towards another person for having an advantage that YOU don't have. Whatever is the cause or your reason of being jealous is not proper, we have to do something before it's too late.

        If love reigns in our hearts, never shall we feel jealous of anyone, even of those who may enjoy things that we do not have. We shall share their happiness in their joy, we shall also rejoice in their success, we shall feel happy for them.

        "Jealousy while still benign like a cancer, should be treated right away before it becomes malignant and leads to death."

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        Thursday, November 3, 2011

        from DARKNESS to LIGHT..

           Being in the dark can be devastating and distressing. You lose your perspective in life, no reference point too. You don't know where you are and where you are going, even if we're not physically blind it's because of what we  had experienced in life. 


         Belonging to light means, not only living harmoniously
        but also getting rid of evil deeds and desires,
        being decent and true in all that we do.

           Let us remain forever in light, always remember that we are not belong to darkness anymore. May we defeat the spiritual forces of evil around us. Hold tight in the name of our Lord..

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        Tuesday, October 25, 2011

        Share Your Best In Facing Obstacles..

        Life that is full of obstacles, hardship and difficulties, do you know how to navigate around it? It's easy to give some advice, but in reality can you just go around that screw or problem we are facing everyday?

        For me, facing obstacles in life it's not that easy,  nothing we can do but to have PATIENCE in facing them one by one. Always think positive even if it's really far from it, because there is someone out there above that can make it possible.

        I want to leave this floor for you guys, have your pen down or key-in to your keyboard now to leave and share your tips below. Like me, I can share or give others advice but sometimes I can't help myself too. So this time, I want to hear it from all of you guys...:)

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        Wednesday, October 19, 2011

        Story That Made My Tears Fall

        I've seen a lot of good things over the internet but did not catch my attention. Unlike this one blog that I've found,  made my tears fall. The author try to show the real meaning of love and what love can do to anyone.  I'm a person that is too emotional and easily got affected when the story or the article I'm reading is all about people who are trying their best and yet nothing they can do but to accept the fact they are not meant for each other. This is a love story who started friends and later on both  fell in love but no time for them to feel the true meaning of  love, because death separated them. The blogger is from India. You can visit his site,  Toofan Singh   to see and feel what I felt about the story.  I would like to congratulate Toofan Singh for this wonderful blog and a meaningful story he shared..

        I choose to share you this blog to show how the author impressed me and got my heart on his blog. And to encourage those who are until now trying to hold back their true feelings, because they are afraid to get hurt. I want them to realize that time is running fast and we don't know when or what will happen in the future. How will you know the answer if it was kept  inside? Speak now before it's too late..

        Love is not selfish. Love can take even the difficult or painful part of relationship. If you're not going to try, how will you know that you deserve each other? Don't wait time to stop, what if there's no last-minute at all?

        Friday, October 14, 2011

        ..Question Needs Answer..

            Living in this world is like a wheel, it runs in a circle emotion, sometimes up sometimes down. If you're inside  that wheel, where would you like? Of course, we're going to choose the place that we are always on top. Why on top?  Talking about living in this world, would you like to see yourself at the bottom? Of course not.. That's why we are doing all the best we can. But life is not easy as that, what will you do to get on top?  Other might say, if you want forever on top, you need to flat the tire so it will not goes down anymore, ha ha.. Is it the right answer? If we are going to flat the tire or meaning end of journey you will not know if you are still on top, because you are already dead by that time! ha ha..

           Our life has a lot of question that needs answer. In every question there is an answer. In every problem there is a solution. To be on top is to work harder, never give-up nor surrender.. as long as you are breathing hope is always there..

        Monday, October 10, 2011

        Let's Talk About Suicide

        What bothering you friend? Is there anything I can help? Let's talk about it.. Sometimes our love ones or someone special  are afraid to talk  about their pain and difficulties in life that lead them to attempt or commit suicide. Those who are hopeless and  seriously depressed , pressured or got misfortune in life. Other are in deep financial difficulties and relationship despair.

        Are you going to wait till your love ones attempt to kill themselves or took away their own life? Like doctors always say, "prevention is better than cure or medication". Be alert when you see or find that one of your family member or friends behavior change. Even if they don't talk about it sometimes through their action you can feel that something is bothering them.

        What is the best way to help them?  Talk to them one on one, heart to heart, show them that you do understand how they feel that moment. Explain all the circumstances and the effect if they will continue to do it. Never and don't blame them, because if you do, it won't  help, it can be a reason for them to commit suicide. People who are suffering from this kind  needs our understanding, love and care..  Encourage them to be more stronger and never lose hope, after rain there is sunshine and everyone is entitled to shine..

        Tuesday, October 4, 2011

        Describe me...

        Can you describe what you see inside the photograph? Look at all the traces, lines, shades and everything on it. You will notice what does this photo trying to portray..

        Above the wall, you can see  lines look a like a mother who is sick laying on bed. At the back of a child  is untrusted person, on the other side  a group of person sitting on the dark place and one standing. A bleeding heart that is flying . All corner are shaded with black.

        The child is facing  difficulties and  painful journey in life.. She is trying to catch the flying heart even if it was bleeding, means even though she felt hurt before still hoping for better one in  the future, in this photo shows that this child believes that love is  what she needs to overcome everything. The child shows how strong she is when it comes to difficulties or trials in life.  This child wants us to see that nothing is impossible when there is love.. We can live with peace and harmony.. We can survive on everything that life is facing of.. Let's keep on holding tight on love, never give up and don't lose hope.. Love can make the world go round..

        Can you see some lines that I forgot to mention? There are still hidden thought in this photo, can you take a look for it?

        Friday, September 30, 2011

        INFIDELITY ... Make Up Or Break Up?

        What causes infidelity in relationship? Why there are some people commit infidelity?  Infidelity usually know as cheating most commonly refers to a breach of the expectation of sexual exclusivity. This can occur to physical intimacy and/or emotional intimacy to men or women.
        Infidelity can be emotional involvement with another person, such as romantic love, time, and attention. These causes ones hurt, pain and suffering. Infidelity involves both physical and emotional betrayal, there are some involve says he/she  was pushed by his/her partner for a reason of lack of attention and they need someone to understand them.

        Do you believe that infidelity is a matter of choice? For me, yes..You can ignore those people whom you think might took advantage on you, they can make your life even worst. Can lead to separation and  broken family. If you really love your self and  your family, you will choose not to get involve in any relationship aside from your present.  Infidelity is not the answer, even if how worst is your present relationship, try to find way to save and  make it work again. Constant communication is one way to help you both to start your relationship . If you think you can't handle it anymore, maybe that's the time you need to consult legal action, break it if you can't make it work again. And infidelity will not come out,  you can do whatever you want after you settle all the problem.

        When someone you know is suffering from infidelity, would you suggest to make up or break up?

        Tuesday, September 20, 2011

        Rain Or Shine...

        Rain or shine..  A person who is willing to be with you in good and bad times no matter what.. But some might use and abuse your kindness, took advantage on you, especially those people who doesn't  know the real meaning of being there through rain or shine. I want to be careful in telling or explaining this kind of topic. I'm not saying, being there through rain or shine is  bad attitude that needed to change. But there are limitations  too.

        What about  rejecting or refusing ones favor? Do you think this can help? It depends, sometimes it's one  way to help  friend or someone to stand on his/her own, to help them realize what and who they are in their own way.  Helping them to learn and to be smart on the other side. Rejecting  doesn't mean we don't care about them. What matters most is, we are always there to give moral support, encourage them to keep moving and guide them until they can stand on their own, because we care about them.

        This is just my  thought. "Rain or shine" not only me but "you and me" should stand together in good and bad times. What about you? What comes to your mind when they say rain or shine?

        Saturday, September 10, 2011

        A Promise Of September..

        It's all where my dream started to bloom. A dream that I thought will change my life. A Promise Of September..

        This message that makes my heart melt, you rekindled the flame called love in me. Happiness from September, anyone who received this kind of message will be captured for sure. Having someone who is willing to be with you in times of trouble is a great feeling can't find anywhere.

        Where are you now?  Promises of September was lost.. Why do we need to make promises if we are going to break it? Is it true that promises are  made to be broken?  Promises even if it was broken can make us dream, makes us feel special  for once in our life.. let's make it as stepping stone and not an hindrance to move forward in reaching our goal.

        Tuesday, August 30, 2011

        Choosing The Right One

        How will you know that you have chosen the right one? Not only in choosing people but also in career or things that we need, choosing the best is always our top priority. We  make sure that we got the best out of the best, right? Which do you think is the best to follow? Your head or your heart?

        If you think you failed to choose the right one. Is there any chances to correct it? Yes, there are always chances in everything. All you need to do is talk, share and accept your mistakes, from there you can start all over again. Wise decision  should always take it  from head and from our heart.

        This is just my own thought. What about you? How do you choose the right one for you?

        Saturday, August 13, 2011

        How To Mend Broken Heart

        Heartbreak or Broken Heart is usually associated with losing a family member or loved one, insult or social rejection,  major or minor can  also break your heart. But the most and popular cause of  broken heart  is  relationship break-up.  All refers to physical pain felt inside our chest and psychological pain that leads to death for some people.

        Mending a broken heart and stop your heart from so much pain is never easy. But we can do it  in "slowly but surely" way to heal the wound. Being heart broken is really painful and can tear us apart. But we need to overcome, stand still and be strong. Listed below are just some way to help those who are still suffering from being heart broken;

        Figure it out -  Where is that broken heart came from?  Losing love one or family member?  Social rejection? Or relationship that you want to last but you failed?

        Work it out - Start your life again, keep moving, make yourself and your mind busy. Physical activities like going to gym or running can help.

        Have a break - If you are not ready for another relationship after your broken heart, atleast give yourself a break, try to have more friends, go out and have fun with them.Create your new world. .

        Never lose hope -  Hope can evaporate sadness. It can lead you to a better way to move on. Learn to forgive and forget all the bad memories  it will help you open your mind and heart again.

        Prayer - This is the best and the most effective way to mend and heal our broken heart to pray and give thanks to our Lord above. Ask  His guidance in facing the new world..

        Saturday, July 30, 2011

        Trust + Love = Pain ?

        Do you know the answer for  this equation of love?  Trust + Love = Pain? There are saying, when you gave trust and love to someone , pain is in return? Maybe other people experienced this kind of love equation, but the truth is, it depends on both  how they treat each other.  When we really love someone, we need to trust and love them without any regrets, it should be Trust + Love = True Love.

        Pain is included in the chemistry of love, sometimes it can makes us more stronger. Pain can help you build a strong foundation. Just like what one blogger wrote on his blog pain will help. Don't be afraid to trust and give love. Give yourself a chance to grow more and let  experiences comes in you.

        What about you? Do you have your own  equation when it comes to love?