Saturday, July 30, 2011

Trust + Love = Pain ?

Do you know the answer for  this equation of love?  Trust + Love = Pain? There are saying, when you gave trust and love to someone , pain is in return? Maybe other people experienced this kind of love equation, but the truth is, it depends on both  how they treat each other.  When we really love someone, we need to trust and love them without any regrets, it should be Trust + Love = True Love.

Pain is included in the chemistry of love, sometimes it can makes us more stronger. Pain can help you build a strong foundation. Just like what one blogger wrote on his blog pain will help. Don't be afraid to trust and give love. Give yourself a chance to grow more and let  experiences comes in you.

What about you? Do you have your own  equation when it comes to love?

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Long Distance Relationship, Will You Survive?

Long distance relationship is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when the partners are separated by a considerable distance. If you  will ask those people who had long distance relationships before, they would most likely mention about the tears, the loneliness, the heartaches, the misunderstandings, the sleepless nights, the I-miss-him/her-so-much syndrome, and the long phone calls.

In the advent of Internet, long distance relationships have exploded in popularity as they become less challenging to sustain, with the use and help of modern technology including cell phones, e-mails, online dating and video conferencing that made them possible to keep in touch. But, long distance relationships aren’t for everybody. Do you believe that? If you are someone who ranks physical intimacy over emotional connection, long distance relationships may be extremely challenging to you, but still you can try for it, after all, there's no harm in trying.

There are things to consider in long distance relationship, these are the pros and cons or advantage and dis advantage of being far in a distance from one another. Listed below are some of pros and cons but it is not necessarily means that I am right or correct in my opinion.

    - you can manage your passion, keeping the fire under control as what others say
    - you get to know someone deeply when he or she is far
    - you will learn to appreciate precious moments you spend together
    - can help you grow tremendously and keep you strong

    - loneliness or emptiness in some way and emotional stressful, dating  with the phone or computer alone
    - no physical intimacy, no hugs and kisses or definitely NO SEX in real
    - costly or expensive in a way of long distance or international call

NO DISTANCE can break any relationship if there is  love and emotional attachment, commitment, fidelity, loyalty, constant communication and trust for each other. These are the most common powerful keys to a successful long distance relationship.  If you believe he/she is your dream or the-one you have been waiting for all your life and you couldn’t possibly imagine finding someone else who touches your heart like what he or she does. Give it a chance.. it will really depends on the two tango-in to the tune of love, do it with a pure heart and realistic expectation. It's tricky but  not impossible. Whether or not you end up together, the experience is sure to enrich you.:)