Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Women's Talk




When you first start dating, it's easy to fall hard and fast. The reason?  He's all -out of mission to charm the pants off you.. literally and figuratively. The wooing stage is about selling themselves and putting their best foot forward. 

Once they succeeded in sweeping you off your feet though, you'll start to notice various changes with them. Some are nice and they seems so much comfortable with you. But others may come across as negative or just plain bizarre.These changes makes us ladies to panic and worry much.

Did you know that men aren't the only one who transform when they become part of couple? Yes, here are some what guys fear most; 

30% She doesn't want sex
20%  She doesn't care much on her looks
15% She become unreasonable
10% She'll get really needy
10%  She'll crack down on guy time
  8%  She'll push for more commitment
  3%  She'll want me to hang with her family
  2%  She'll become home-body
  2%  She'll bitch about my interest in sports.

Statistics and opinion are base on some research I made from neighborhood. Sad to say but some of guys frets were true. Some woman transform or fall with these sign when they become part of couples. 

These changes can cause relationship to get cold as ice that can lead to serious problem like;

* Your guy might lose interest with you
* He start to play (flirt) with other
* He easily get angry or hot tempered in simple things
* Start to hide money from you for his extra curricular activities (dating with others)
* Or worst, he will leave you and file separation or divorce.

Some tips to maintain the sweetness and flame of relationship are, be more aware of what your partners need, discover new things to impress him and make him 'miss' you all the time. Stay beautiful and attractive on his eyes. 

Are you one of those ladies who transformed when become part of couples? How do you maintain your relationship?




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20 comments:

  1. Man are very clever, Sagittarian.

    And relationships develops with time. It's pretty natural thing. Some time things don't work out between two people no matter how much they try .

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    1. hi izi, thanks for sharing and dropping by always..:) Have a great day! :)

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  2. It's such a hassle to be in a romantic relationship. Claps for the daring ones. I can give no verdict on this topic Sagittarian but appreciate what you are doing to make others' life better.

    Have a wonderful day! :)

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    1. Hi there Sui,:) Thanks a lot sweety..:) Thanks for always here to support..:) Great day to you Sui..:)

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  3. well said sagi.. truly men changes their color as days passes.

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    1. Hi Sonia, thanks a lot my friend.:) Have a nice day..:)

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  4. Very interesting sweet Sagittarian! Relationships develop with time, but we have to stay aware they don't work with efforts.
    I look after myself more than before, to be pretty at all times. I like to do something special here and there, a special meal or a different day (routine can create bad habits). As we live away we miss each other constantly, so we don't have to do more on this especially!
    Great subject! Have a beautiful day

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    1. Hello Marie, thank you so much for sharing comment,. Thanks for a lot ..:) God bless you..:)

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  5. Agreed!

    I know that some woman will change to be more needy as they got further into a relationship. (And sometimes, man act that way too!)

    Interesting fact, sagittarian! :)

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    1. Hi there Nash, thanks a lot..:) Have a nice day!:)

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  6. Interesting post. I haven't dated in over 15 years. I'm glad ;-)

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  7. interesting post... have a good easter hun... big hug

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  8. This post is like an eye-opener for we women. Thank you so much for sharing some tips. :)

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    1. Hi Balqis, it's my pleasure..:) Have a great day! :)

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  9. It is good thing that you made a post like this... it is great to inform girls like you of the changes that girls do...very informative!

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    1. Hi Noblesse Key, thanks for visiting..:) Thanks for sharing good vibes on my post too..:) Hope can hear from you again..:)

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