Wednesday, January 11, 2012

When Is The Right Time ?



Everyone has his share of life's regrets and disappointments, it can be major or inconsequential. In retrospect, one would wish he could turn back the clock and modify the decisions or actions that cause his disillusionment. But, sad to say there is no such thing.  Regrets as the saying goes, do come at the end.


We all knew that with disappointments and all, man can learn from his mistakes, rectify his action and recover his loss. Is this easy? My answer is NO. We  learned from our mistakes, we can change action for the better but still the loss will be loss, but it doesn't mean we can't recover, we still have the chances and  the time to recover.


We must understand that everything's happen for a reason like we always heard.  God in heaven awaits our prayers, let our hearts not be daunted.  NOW is the right time for recovery, leave all those sad memories, live life for the better.



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46 comments:

  1. We can't go back and fix our past but we can fix our lives now because it will surely affect our future.

    As what I have said on my latest post ateh..we have our own story to tell, we have our own journey to take and we have our own destiny to make but it will depend on Ourselves..are we willing to hold on and move on or will we give up!

    We all go through different circumstances in our lives and we have our own share of adversities in life but all will surely pass..what matters most ateh is to hold on and still be grateful to God no matter what happens ;)

    ateh is there something wrong? I'll always be here ok..you can mail me..*hugs* ;)

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  2. @ ♥●• İzdihër •●♥,

    Hi friend! :) Thanks for taking time to drop by! :) Blessed day to you! :)

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  3. @ Sie,

    Hi there sis,:) I'm always happy o see you around! :) you're such a great sis and friend:) *hug and kisses*

    Life like we all knew, not easy but still it's wonderful. I/we always have a good reason to hold on.:) I'm fine sis, thanks a lot..:) I really appreciate your effort to comfort me,:) thank you so much my sis..:) *hug and kisses*

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  4. I like your brilliant ideas. We, as normal humans, would definitely go through the smooth and rough roads of life. Patience and positive thought are important.

    A nice post. :)

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  5. Yes, we can never go back so live each day so you won't regret things later. Nice reminder!

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  6. I totally agree with you. Personally, I believe that life is too short to drown ourselves with regret. Until we are alive we have a chance to make amends. So let's not just breathe let's try to live. :D

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  7. @ Shaibya,

    Thanks a lot for sharing! :) Great time for you! :)

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  8. @ Balqis,

    Thanks Balqis, it's true.. Patience and positive thoughts what we need when heading rough times.:)

    Thanks a lot!:) good evening! :)

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  9. @ Lisa,

    Thanks a lot for sharing! :) And for always dropping by! :) A sweet day for you! :)

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  10. @ Sui generis Writer,

    Hi Sui, thank you for sharing great and inspiring comment! :) Life is too short, it's true and agree on you!:) Thank you so much! :)

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  11. I never regret anything I have done. it's a lesson. I only regret things I didn't do.

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  12. Regrets are the things we've done, and the things we've done are what make us who we are. Not only should we move on from our regrets, but we should move on as a stronger person who knows better now. (: I think that's what makes time so meaningful, too; we can't rewind it, we can't fast forward it, we can't even pause it -- all we can do is sit back and try to enjoy the moment.

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  13. Amen to that. It's true that is not easy and yes, we do learn from our mistakes but sometimes and some people seem to not learn from them until it's too late. Life is complex.

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  14. We only learn from our mistake...we learn a lot of things from our school to college life but we get experience only when we did some mistakes and then regret comes in...then we learn and try best to never repeat that, because now we know the consequences very well. With time our experience increases and no. of mistake reduces and gives a great life.

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  15. some wise people have said that the soul must rest in peace, and we either make things right in this life, or we wait until we make things right in the next life. better do it now and invite peace into our lives quicker. but mistakes, as you say, are part of the path for all of us. it is a test and challenge to accept our own faults, and not be too hard on others. this is really what love your neighbor is all about. what a good tough love post.

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  16. These are very inspiring words.
    Thanks for sharing.

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  17. @Margaret (Peggy or Peg too),

    Thanks for coming! :) That's great honey,:) That's good attitude of mature people! I'm proud of meeting a friend like you here! :) *smile*

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  18. @Cloe,

    Hi dear! :) Thanks a lot for sharing your insight here, I really appreciate it! :) That's true, we can never bring back the past so better move on and relax.:) Nice Cloe! :) *smile*

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  19. @Miss Lego,

    Thank you as ever dear,:) I agree with you.:)Some, really don't care to change even though they knew that's same mistake before:) Thank you so much! :)*hug and kisses*

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  20. @ Inaam Dunggal,

    Thank you so much ID, you said it well, :) We always learn and always trying our best to avoid it, :) Nice hearing from you ID,:) *smile*

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  21. @ Ed Pilolla,

    Hi Ed,:) Thank you for coming and shared us a very good comment, :) It so true, peace is a powerful tool and can give our mind and heart rest. Mistakes or committing on it, is a test I agree with you, and we must overcome them and live life on the right path, from there we can live a peaceful life:)

    Thanks a lot for dropping by, I really appreciate your time and kind heart for sharing :)

    A blessed day/evening to you :) *smile*

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  22. @ Ana,

    Hi Ana, :) Thanks a lot! :) Love to see you around! :) Blessed day to you! :)*smile*

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  23. First of all, the colors in the image and the art of it is stunning!

    It is never my intention to be pessimistic but there are some people who are stuck in situations that time won't heal and every single day is a battle for them to merely exist.

    I am sharing this because I have several dear friends who are very ill and nothing can be done to heal them, unless a miracle should happen *smiles*

    They can't move ahead especially when they are confined to bed. The sad memories linger on and can't be recovered. This of course is a rare example but it's the first thing that popped into my head when I read this very optimistic post.

    I hope you don't mind me sharing 'the other side of the coin' It's a 'minority' and most of us are blessed with the 'majority'. For those who are, the sky is definitely the limit. :-) x0x

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    1. Hi Princesa Fiona! :) I'm so happy about what you shared with me! :) muaaaahh!!*smile*:)

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    2. You're so welcome and it was my pleasure! I am LOVING the new 'reply' method! Muahhhz! ♥ Enjoy your weekend :-)

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  24. @~*Princesa Fiona*~,

    Hi Princesa Fiona :) Thank you for coming! :) I love what you said, and I agree with you too, there were some who are until now can't overcome their past, and we can't blame them, because if we're going to ask them, they don't like what's happening with them too, what all we can do is to share our understanding with them :)

    And for us who are lucky, let's move on and live life for the better:)*hug* God bless us all! *smile*

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  25. Hello Sagittarian.
    Miss you too.
    I love this post. I think that great things happen to those who wait. We may go through terrible things but beyond all that, there's always something wonderful...

    Hi_D

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  26. @Heidi,

    Thank you so much for sharing! :) *hug for you* :)

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  27. Easier said than done, but yes, so true.

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  28. @Lisa @ Two Bears Farm,

    That's true Lisa, I agree with oyu! :) Thank you for coming! :)

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  29. @Jamie,

    Thanks for dropping by! :) Wonderful day to you! :)*smile*

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  30. What a beautiful insightful post - what a beautiful insightful person you must be!

    Anna :o]

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  31. @HyperCRYPTICal,

    Thanks a lot Anna for taking time to read, it's a great honor for me.:) God bless you! :)

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  32. Sorry for writing such late comments. :( Thanks for always dropping by my blog eventhough I was so busy. Are you okay? Something wrong? I am always here too, okay? Things always happen for a reason and these always makes one stronger than ever before. God would always guide us. Promise! If there's something bothering you, just call my name and I will be there:) mwah mwah

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    1. Hi Wawan, thank you so much for being so nice:) I'm happy to hear that from you!:)And I know I can count on you too! :) You're right, God is always here to guide us! :) There's always hope! :) *smile* *hug*:))

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  33. This is so true Sis... in other words we always learned the hard way. I and my B always learned the hard way honestly. I, with my life, I always learned the hard way. I don't know, but failures is beside me just like a shadow, but despite of that, the most important thing is I learned to overcome it. It hurts, yes, but the only choices I have are to move on or idle, and I choose the former... I still got the chance to make it up! As long as we breathe, we got the time to make bitter situations into better chapters of our lives. We cannot change the past, but we always got the time to change our future :) Nice sharing my Big Sister :)

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    1. Right Prime, life is a journey, in every journey there's a trials . And from trials we became strong, not just strong, but more stronger,.:) And I believe, God will not give us trials that we can't pass.:) Thanks a lot Prime!:)

      God bless you! :) Good evening! :)

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  34. Very well said my friend. We have to stop looking at the past, regrets are there to remind us that everything can change, everything is possible now. The journey is not finished, every moment we can make it right and change the balance.
    Much love to you hoping you are well. xx

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    1. Hi Marie, you're right, life's journey is not yet finished,.We need more hope and faith to be more stronger. Thanks a lot!Muaahh...:) *hug for you sis* :)

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  35. I too was a person full of regretting things that I may have done, thinking about them incessantly, until one day I realized that whatever happens, happens for a reason. There, certainly, is something planned for it in future. So, no point regretting. :)

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    1. Hi friend! :) Thanks for coming!:) I agree, anything's happen for a reason, regret won't help or fade mistake, what we need is to walk and change life for the better.:) Thank you so much..:) *smile*:)

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  36. yes I agree with you on this, sometimes we tend to be afraid to commit mistakes or failure because we don't want to get hurt but in getting all of it we learn how to stand and be better ... great post my friend... :-)

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    1. Hi :) Thanks for sharing,:) It's so true, we learn to stand and be better from mistakes :) Thanks a lot! :)

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