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Saturday, July 30, 2011

Trust + Love = Pain ?

Do you know the answer for this equation of love? Trust + Love = Pain? There are saying, when you gave trust and love to someone , pain is in return? Maybe other people experienced this kind of love equation, but the truth is, it depends on both how they treat each other. When we really love someone, we need to trust and love them without any regrets, it should be Trust + Love = True Love.

Pain is included in the chemistry of love, sometimes it can makes us more stronger. Pain can help you build a strong foundation. Just like what one blogger wrote on his blog pain will help. Don't be afraid to trust and give love. Give yourself a chance to grow more and let experiences comes in you.

What about you? Do you have your own equation when it comes to love?

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Long Distance Relationship, Will You Survive?

Long distance relationship is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when the partners are separated by a considerable distance. If you will ask those people who had long distance relationships before, they would most likely mention about the tears, the loneliness, the heartaches, the misunderstandings, the sleepless nights, the I-miss-him/her-so-much syndrome, and the long phone calls.

In the advent of Internet, long distance relationships have exploded in popularity as they become less challenging to sustain, with the use and help of modern technology including cell phones, e-mails, online dating and video conferencing that made them possible to keep in touch. But, long distance relationships aren’t for everybody. Do you believe that? If you are someone who ranks physical intimacy over emotional connection, long distance relationships may be extremely challenging to you, but still you can try for it, after all, there's no harm in trying.

There are things to consider in long distance relationship, these are the pros and cons or advantage and dis advantage of being far in a distance from one another. Listed below are some of pros and cons but it is not necessarily means that I am right or correct in my opinion.

PROS
    - you can manage your passion, keeping the fire under control as what others say
    - you get to know someone deeply when he or she is far
    - you will learn to appreciate precious moments you spend together
    - can help you grow tremendously and keep you strong

CONS
    - loneliness or emptiness in some way and emotional stressful, dating with the phone or computer alone
- no physical intimacy, no hugs and kisses or definitely NO SEX in real
    - costly or expensive in a way of long distance or international call

NO DISTANCE can break any relationship if there is love and emotional attachment, commitment, fidelity, loyalty, constant communication and trust for each other. These are the most common powerful keys to a successful long distance relationship. If you believe he/she is your dream or the-one you have been waiting for all your life and you couldn’t possibly imagine finding someone else who touches your heart like what he or she does. Give it a chance.. it will really depends on the two tango-in to the tune of love, do it with a pure heart and realistic expectation. It's tricky but not impossible. Whether or not you end up together, the experience is sure to enrich you.:)

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Buying Gadgets In Practical Way

Looking for a quality gadgets that can suit your pocket? Well, most of us are looking for those gadgets that has good quality, best features and low cost. Let me share you some of this gadget.

UNDERWATER DIGITAL CAMERAS
Instead of buying digital camera alone using for capturing special moments, why not try digital camera that can also be used underwater? You can use it anytime and anywhere, for sure all moves can be captured by this underwater digital camera.

CELLPHONES

Why do we use cellphones? Our main reason is for easy and fast communication. If this is your reason too, then you don't need to buy too expensive cellphones, as long as your cellphones has good quality, original parts for long life using, is enough if you don't have much money on your pocket.

LAPTOP

When buying laptop see to it that it has all the features you need, look for it's built-in memory if can store all your files, some laptop are only good in our eyes because of their outside designs, but not in performance and make sure that it was not yet repaired and has original parts too.

One more thing to consider in buying gadgets is make sure you bought it from registered dealers or stores, whether it is brand new or second hand, as long it has good quality, original parts and of course the warranty.

Monday, June 13, 2011

My First Visa ... Unforgettable..

I want to share my unforgettable times in getting my first visa to travel outside my country. I was so excited when my passport was stamped for the first time!

This country is part of Asia, you can go anytime as long as you have your plane ticket, pocket money and hotel reservation, as easy as that! But not for me, I was rejected twice by our Immigration, for the reason of insufficient documents. My plane ticket was wasted because they are not refundable.

I tried my luck for the third time and that was December 29, 2010 and this time I got it! Am so excited that day, especially when I first enter the waiting area or departure area, waiting for the plane to arrive! Cebu Pacific 5J-501 / 9:45 PM departure time,. Wow!!!..

Until we arrived our destination and stepped-out of the plane, start walking outside, ooh..feel great!.. And whispered... Here I am Malaysia!.. Thanks to Philippine Immigration for the unforgettable experiences I had! This is one of my unforgettable moment!.:)