INFIDELITY ... Make Up Or Break Up?

What causes infidelity in relationship? Why there are some people commit infidelity?  Infidelity usually know as cheating most commonly refers to a breach of the expectation of sexual exclusivity. This can occur to physical intimacy and/or emotional intimacy to men or women.

Infidelity can be emotional involvement with another person, such as romantic love, time, and attention. These causes ones hurt, pain and suffering. Infidelity involves both physical and emotional betrayal, there are some involve says he/she  was pushed by his/her partner for a reason of lack of attention and they need someone to understand them.

Do you believe that infidelity is a matter of choice? For me, yes..You can ignore those people whom you think might took advantage on you, they can make your life even worst. Can lead to separation and  broken family. If you really love your self and  your family, you will choose not to get involve in any relationship aside from your present.  Infidelity is not the answer, even if how worst is your present relationship, try to find way to save and  make it work again. Constant communication is one way to help you both to start your relationship . If you think you can't handle it anymore, maybe that's the time you need to consult legal action, break it if you can't make it work again. And infidelity will not come out,  you can do whatever you want after you settle all the problem.

When someone you know is suffering from infidelity, would you suggest to make up or break up?

Rain Or Shine...

Rain or shine..  A person who is willing to be with you in good and bad times no matter what.. But some might use and abuse your kindness, took advantage on you, especially those people who doesn't  know the real meaning of being there through rain or shine. I want to be careful in telling or explaining this kind of topic. I'm not saying, being there through rain or shine is  bad attitude that needed to change. But there are limitations  too.

What about  rejecting or refusing ones favor? Do you think this can help? It depends, sometimes it's one  way to help  friend or someone to stand on his/her own, to help them realize what and who they are in their own way.  Helping them to learn and to be smart on the other side. Rejecting  doesn't mean we don't care about them. What matters most is, we are always there to give moral support, encourage them to keep moving and guide them until they can stand on their own, because we care about them.

This is just my  thought. "Rain or shine" not only me but "you and me" should stand together in good and bad times. What about you? What comes to your mind when they say rain or shine?

A Promise Of September..

It's all where my dream started to bloom. A dream that I thought will change my life. A Promise Of September..

This message that makes my heart melt, you rekindled the flame called love in me. Happiness from September, anyone who received this kind of message will be captured for sure. Having someone who is willing to be with you in times of trouble is a great feeling can't find anywhere.

Where are you now?  Promises of September was lost.. Why do we need to make promises if we are going to break it? Is it true that promises are  made to be broken?  Promises even if it was broken can make us dream, makes us feel special  for once in our life.. let's make it as stepping stone and not an hindrance to move forward in reaching our goal.

Choosing The Right One

How will you know that you have chosen the right one? Not only in choosing people but also in career or things that we need, choosing the best is always our top priority. We  make sure that we got the best out of the best, right? Which do you think is the best to follow? Your head or your heart?

If you think you failed to choose the right one. Is there any chances to correct it? Yes, there are always chances in everything. All you need to do is talk, share and accept your mistakes, from there you can start all over again. Wise decision  should always take it  from head and from our heart.

This is just my own thought. What about you? How do you choose the right one for you?

How To Mend Broken Heart

Heartbreak or Broken Heart is usually associated with losing a family member or loved one, insult or social rejection,  major or minor can  also break your heart. But the most and popular cause of  broken heart  is  relationship break-up.  All refers to physical pain felt inside our chest and psychological pain that leads to death for some people.

Mending a broken heart and stop your heart from so much pain is never easy. But we can do it  in "slowly but surely" way to heal the wound. Being heart broken is really painful and can tear us apart. But we need to overcome, stand still and be strong. Listed below are just some way to help those who are still suffering from being heart broken;

Figure it out -  Where is that broken heart came from?  Losing love one or family member?  Social rejection? Or relationship that you want to last but you failed?

Work it out - Start your life again, keep moving, make yourself and your mind busy. Physical activities like going to gym or running can help.

Have a break - If you are not ready for another relationship after your broken heart, atleast give yourself a break, try to have more friends, go out and have fun with them.Create your new world. .

Never lose hope -  Hope can evaporate sadness. It can lead you to a better way to move on. Learn to forgive and forget all the bad memories  it will help you open your mind and heart again.

Prayer - This is the best and the most effective way to mend and heal our broken heart to pray and give thanks to our Lord above. Ask  His guidance in facing the new world..